Alexis Pilkington Formspring.me Website?

Alexis Pilkington, a Long Island teen and West Islip soccer star, took her own life Sunday following vicious taunts on social networking websites - which persisted postmortem on Internet tribute pages, worsening the grief of her family and friends.

And now the police is investigating whether cyber bullies contributed to the suicide of Alexis Pilkington.

Some people say Alexis Pilkington commit suicide because a page on formspring.me website, another social networking website, which was flooded with mean-spirited messages and graphic images.

Alexis Pilkington was a popular athlete, a well-liked star who had already landed a soccer scholarship to college. But none of that stopped the 17-year-old from becoming the target of nasty online comments.

What is this formspring.me website? Did Alexis Pilkington killed herself because of formspring.me?

asked by Gabriel in Law & Ethics | 15902 views | 03-25-2010 at 11:53 PM

The Formspring.me website issued a statement through a spokeswoman expressing condolences to Alexis' family.

The father Mr. Thomas Pilkington informed through a media interview that his daughter’s death resulted off suicide while at his family home at Long Islands. Police deputies from West Islip are already investigating the matter and they have had describe the status of Alexis’s death suicide too.

Alexis Skye Pilkington was 17-years-old and a member of the West Islip High School soccer team in Wwest Islip, New York. She was a stand-out on her team and was well-liked by her peers. Alexis, known as Lexi Pilkington, also played lacrosse and participated in other extra-curricular activities at her school. She had graduated from high school early and was preparing to start school at Dowling College in the fall on a soccer scholarship.

Photo of Alexis Pilkington.

Alexis Pilkington dead

Donna McBride, whose daughter often brought Alexis along on family vacations as they were growing up, said her daughter started screaming when she saw the spiteful and gruesome images. She has told her daughter to stop looking at the page and has instead asked a relative who didn't know Alexis to document the postings for authorities.

Students at the school speaking on the condition of anonymity say Alexis posted a final Facebook update between 1 and 2am local time Saturday, simply stating “done with everything.” No reference was made to any online harassment, but Pilkington’s memorial page is currently plagued with distasteful messages and graphic images of unrelated deaths. Sources who asked to remain unnamed within West Islip High School say the teen was rumored to have been troubled before her death, and that online conflict is widely dismissed by those who knew Alexis as the cause of her depression in the wake of the tragedy.

Investigators are monitoring the postings of Formspring.me and will take action if any communication is determined to be of a criminal nature.

This is a site that says it gives teens the opportunity to "ask questions, give answers and learn more about your friends." Teens can do so anonymously -- just like they can in the Facebook "Honesty Box." This makes this site a goldmine for cyberbullies because they can be as cruel as they want without ever being identified. Cyberbullies even left cruel comments AFTER Alexis committed suicide.

On Friday 45 Long Island school districts will be attending a keeping kids safe from cyber bullying conference sponsored by Child Abuse Prevention Services.

Although it is unclear if any “cyberbullying” took place prior to Pilkington’s suicide, the media has firmly latched on to the notion that it lead to the girl’s death. It appears that most, if not all, of the current harassment does not stem from actual acquaintances of the girl, but rather internet trolls seeking to cause conflict following Pilkington’s death.

Just two weeks before Alexis’ death, a father who lost his son to suicide after the boy was bullied online went to speak to members of the school district community. That was followed with classroom discussions on the topic, said Nancy Lenz, a spokeswoman for the West Islip School District. Alexis was unlikely to have attended the talk, McBride said.

The father of one of Pilkington's friends, Michael Stracuzza, is reportedly working with prosecutors and is collecting and passing on the hurtful messages that have been posted on Facebook.

answered by Will | 03-26-2010 at 12:12 AM

aw:(
she sounded like a great role model, and she had a pretty smile and face. i have a formspring but i have mine set so only people with accounts can leave me messages. i guess that could help a little? so far,everybody's been being kind. but i definitely will ignore rude comments, they won't bring me down! (:

answered by kateelynn | 04-26-2010 at 10:14 PM

Wow.
I can't believe she killed herself. It couldn't be just because someone said that. She had to have something else going on in her life to make her do something so stupid. R.I.P Lexie. You are a very beautiful girl.

answered by liz.): | 04-26-2010 at 10:33 PM

</3
wow that poor girl. I'm going to delete mine now :/

answered by lexxxiiii | 04-27-2010 at 10:20 PM

that's ****** up . she was mad pretty; wow who ever left mean and ugly stuff on her formspring, will suffer a lot.

- MaryJANE.

answered by Guest | 05-23-2010 at 12:10 AM

I hope the person who made her kill herself suffer and goes to hell because she didn't deserve that one bit r.i.p lexi you will be missed! gosh I hope they catch that person if they do that to someone else!

answered by Guest | 06-22-2010 at 01:17 AM

wow
wow i just read this and I'm so surprised, she was beautiful and whoever wrote the horrible things on her Formspring was clearly jealous of her. She was pretty an athlete and had a gorgeous smile and she had a scholarship to a good college. i hope this is a lesson that you shouldn't let what people say to you affect you and how you act, its stupid. the people that wrote those comments are going to have to live with the fact that they did this to her for the rest of their lives. There is at least one good thing about everyone and you shouldn't let "anonymous" people tell you different.

answered by Guest | 08-05-2010 at 01:11 AM

Wow, she had her life planned out, right in front of her-knowing what would happen in high school and where she would go.. But maybe that was what made her pass, maybe she didn't want to be planned....I cannot believe this happened to a poor high school girl, I'm in 8th grade, and sure - drama happens and people wright on eachothers' formsprings but I just can't believe what someone could have said to make her kill herself. This makes me think that I should delete mine and treat others differently, online and face to face. I'm not here to make a threat against the people who wrote on Alexis' formspring, but I can honestly say that who ever did make those terrible remarks, are going to be paying off for it soon enough, if not already. I wish I could have done something to help Alexis before she had done this. I couldn't have though, because I don't know her. I'm starting to regret ever making a formspring, or writing rude comments on other people's walls just because I'm upset at the moment. I would hate for this to happen at my school or to one of my friends. I am honestly going to delete my formspring right now. Please Alexis, Rest in peace.
-Britt from Georgia

answered by Guest | 08-07-2010 at 04:21 AM

I didn't know her, and i just learned about reading an article i feel extremely upset, that such a pretty girl would do such thing ):
RIP.

answered by kaylllaa | 06-03-2011 at 06:23 PM

I didn't know her personally and my ex boyfriend lived in the town so that's how I hear about it last year.
She was really pretty and that's horrible what people did to her on Formspring. It relates to the movie Cyber Bully. Because people bullied Alexis on Facebook. RIP.

answered by Guest | 08-15-2011 at 06:03 AM

comment
Thread Tools
vBulletin® Copyright ©2000 - 2013, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.